22 month old eating and sleeping schedule - out of control!?

The crying method works. My 1 year old still has days and sometimes weeks where I just have to let him cry. His Daddy doesnt like it. But I am the main and I do mean main caregiver. I let him know right fast unless he is going to help then he can just stay out of it. But anyways. Does she still take a nap or two. U may have to cut that time way down. As for her not eating all she is doing to filling up on milk. U may have to cut that way down to. She may also need vitamins. Talk to her doctor about it. My nephew was the same way with milk and his doctor put him on vitamins. Now he eats like he is suppose too. He will be 2 in Sept.